Sylvia Denise Scales

Sylvia Denise Scales was born on January 31, 1962, in St. Louis, Missouri, to Barbara Jean Scales and John D. Scales. Raised in St. Louis City, Sylvia—affectionately known as “Cricket”—lived a life full of creativity, love, and laughter, leaving a lasting impression on everyone who knew her.

She was educated in St. Louis Public Schools and attended Central High School, where her bold personality and genuine love for people first began to shine. Throughout her life, Sylvia embraced her many talents—whether styling hair, designing beautiful spaces, cooking unforgettable meals, or bringing joy and humor to every gathering she attended. Sylvia pursued her passion for beauty at the Academy of Beauty, graduating in 1985. Her grandmother’s basement became her first salon, where she styled family and friends with skill, flair, and her quick wit. For decades, she remained the trusted family stylist, transforming not just hair but moments, memories, and moods.

Sylvia’s creativity extended far beyond cosmetology. She had an extraordinary talent for interior design, decorating, and event styling. Holidays—especially Christmas—were her masterpieces. She often displayed multiple beautifully themed Christmas trees throughout her home. What started as basket-making through her business, Cricket Creations, grew into full event décor and home styling projects, each reflecting her vision and impeccable eye for beauty. She could walk into any room and instantly see what it could become.

Cooking was another one of Sylvia’s greatest passions. From childhood, she learned at the sides of her grandmother and mother—making cornbread at seven years old and later becoming famous for her beloved holiday dressing. Family gatherings were often hosted in her home, filled with Sylvia’s food, her laughter, and the warmth only she could bring. Easter was her favorite holiday, celebrated with colorful suits, full dresses, Stacey Adams shoes, and frilly socks.

Music was a big part of Sylvia’s life. Her home often echoed with the soulful vocals of Anita Baker, the timeless feel of “Zoom” by the Commodores, “Wildflower” by Skylark, and even the energy of Tupac—especially “Gangster Party.” She loved to dance, karaoke, celebrate, and she was always the life of every family gathering. Known for clearing the dance floor with her moves and vibrant personality, she was also a proud member of the Ladies of Quality social club.

Professionally, Sylvia dedicated more than 25 years of service as a CNA at Barnes-Jewish Extended Care, retiring in 2023. She adored working with the elderly—cooking for them, styling their hair, and bringing small gifts from home just to brighten their day. Her compassion was genuine, effortless, and deeply felt.

Sylvia valued kindness, nonjudgment, and generosity. She believed in treating people with love and was always ready to help anyone who needed her. Her laughter was contagious, her voice bold and unmistakable—often sprinkled with a few choice words—and her presence lit up every room she entered. Guided by a strong spirit of discernment, she maintained a deep, personal connection with God, keeping a quiet but powerful prayer life that covered her children and family daily. In her later years, she worshiped under the spiritual covering of Rhema Word Church.

In her final years, Sylvia found pure joy in doting on her granddaughters, creating memories, and pouring endless love into their bond. A devoted single mother, she raised her children to be independent, resilient, and grounded—an achievement she cherished more than anything.

Sylvia was called home on November 23, 2025. She leaves behind her children, Ajah Janee’ Thomas (Dwaine) and Orlando Cortez Scales (Kim); her beloved granddaughters, Orlawnda “Lala” Scales (Anissah) and Taniya “Nana” Williams; her siblings, Orlando Scales (Carla), Glynis Scales (Steve), Amanda Scales, and Kimberly Johnson; along with a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends who loved her dearly. She was preceded in death by her parents, Barbara Jean Scales and John D. Scales.

Sylvia will forever be remembered for her love, her music, her food, her laughter, and the joy she brought everywhere she went. Her legacy lives on in the lives she uplifted, the memories she created, and the family she loved so deeply.

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